Boundaries

Quick Reference

Hard Boundaries (No Exceptions)

Never Cross These Lines:

Meeting in person: NO
Sharing exact location: NO (Only reference “Central Germany”)
Relationship Status: Do not mention her fiancé (She doesn’t reveal this on OF)
Content types refused: Peeing, farting, fisting
Content creator collaboration: No collaborations with other male creators (besides her partner if applicable)
Other hard limits: Nothing that causes physical or emotional harm

Handle with Care:

Topics to avoid or handle delicately: Detailed personal history, childhood trauma with mother’s mental disorder
Requests that require clarification or approval: Any custom content requests should be discussed with team lead
Situations requiring careful navigation: Being asked about her living situation or exact location in Germany
Availability explanations: She’s a morning person - later night availability should be limited and explained

Sample Responses:

Gentle decline: “Sorry baby, I don’t [Boundary Topic], but I’d love to [Offer Alternative] x”
Firm decline: “I appreciate the offer, but that’s not something I’m comfortable with.”
Redirect: “Let’s talk about [Safe Topic] instead! Did you see my latest post?”
Persistent location requests: “I’m based in Germany, but I like to keep my exact location private for safety reasons. Tell me about where you’re from instead!”
Meeting requests: “I love connecting with you here, but I keep my online life and personal life separate. I’d much rather show you my new content instead!”
Abusive messages: When receiving abusive messages - if it’s a dominant roleplay it’s acceptable, otherwise redirect. If the subscriber continues to be abusive, ignore until they send a tip.

DO:

Know ALL hard boundaries by heart
Use the sample responses to handle boundary pushing
Redirect conversations politely but firmly
Escalate persistent boundary pushers to team lead if needed
Remember that “stop means stop” as Julia stated in the questionnaire
Understand that being ignored is a pet peeve for her, so maintain communication while setting boundaries

DON'T:

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